Reset, readjust, restart, refocus.As many times as you need to.
Just don't quit!
Energy flows where attention goes.
To get what you really want in life, you need a clear goal that has purpose and meaning behind it.
Once this is in place, you can focus your energy on the goal and become obsessive about it.
When you learn how to focus your energy, amazing things happen.
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There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.
If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.
When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, "What was it that you wanted and why didn't you fight for it?
When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in the center of every constellation, and people want to be near you.
Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured by finally letting go. However, your peace is measured by how long you don’t look back.
The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.
People who fit don’t seek. The seekers are those that don’t fit.
Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.
The moon will guide you through the night with her brightness, but she will always dwell in the darkness, in order to be seen.
The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely living in the realism of NOW.
Life always begins with one step outside of your comfort zone.
Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.
The most intriguing people you will encounter in this life are the people who had insights about you, that you didn't know about yourself.
Beauty is not who you are on the outside, it is the wisdom and time you gave away to save another struggling soul like you.
Your strength will be found when you stop struggling with yourself, instead of thinking everyone is a struggle worth overcoming. Every obstacle in life is a lesson that teaches us, not others.
When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret.
Personality begins where comparison leaves off. Be unique. Be memorable. Be confident. Be proud.
Fear is the glue that keeps you stuck. Faith is the solvent that sets you free.
I am not afraid to die; I am only afraid of saying goodbye to you forever.
It is easier to tell a person what life is not, rather than to tell them what it is. A child understands weeds that grow from lack of attention, in a garden. However, it is hard to explain the wild flowers that one gardener calls weeds, and another considers beautiful ground cover.
Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.
Diversity of character is due to the unequal time given to values. Only through each other will we see the importance of the qualities we lack and our unfinished soul's potential.
The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.
Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another: Why can't you see who I truly am?
Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.
Lies don't end relationships the truth does.
When the person you love can't see your love for them beneath the painful things you say when they reject you, remember this: Love is blind.
The problem isn’t that I think so highly of myself. It is just that you think so little of yourself. Live life BIG, BOLD and OUT LOUD!
Money isn't the solution to your problems. It only lets you carry your unhappiness around in style.
Fear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the end was your past, and the future is only full of beautiful beginnings through an eternity built around God’s love.
Communication is the one class no one graduates from. Even the wisest man's words will be misinterpreted by a fool.
It is not until you change your identity to match your life blueprint that you will understand why everything in the past never worked.
When you think this pain is all you deserve, you are right. You are the only one that can decide how long you will walk in hell.
Maybe, if you can't get someone out of your head they were never meant to leave. Perhaps, they were meant to help change you into the person you have been waiting to become.
Hope combined with action is the only thing that will bring you contentment.
Spiritual pain is when you can’t stand another moment not knowing the real truth, and when you finally do know you can’t let go.
God will bring the right person into your life at the right time. Always believe that! If they are not there, God isn't finished yet!
God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story will rescue others. He has always been a God of rescues and a maker of warriors for his grace. You only need to believe that you are part of something greater than you know.
Learning to let go is not giving up! It is simply passing the burden to a better fighter, so you can fight another day. (God)
Faith requires following the power of a whisper.
Immorality is the word we use to describe people that are not sinning the same way we are.
Your dignity can be mocked, abused, compromised, toyed with, lowered and even badmouthed, but it can never be taken from you. You have the power today to reset your boundaries, restore your image, start fresh with renewed values and rebuild what has happened to you in the past.
True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because they need it more than you do.
Every game is winnable if you change your mind about what the prize should be and your perspective about the players at the table.
They say faith is taking the first step when you can’t see the whole staircase. Actually, wisdom is seeing the elevator behind it that would have taken you to the top floor.
Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me?
The secret to your purpose is to find what you feel is important, and not pursue what others would think is important. When you think highly of yourself, me thinking highly of you will never be enough!
There are only two ways to live your life. One as if all that matters is to have someone love and accept you. The other is as though loving and accepting another person is all that matters. Often, when you choose the second you get the first.
Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It's like sitting in a boat and neither one has an oar to row the other to shore. You can meet your mirror image in life, but that doesn't mean you should marry him.
Insanity is everyone expecting you not to fall apart when you find out everything you believed in was a lie.
Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where they are. Never settle for someone that didn't know your worth from the beginning, or build a life without God in it. Live beyond your low expectations.
If you haven't cried at least once while writing a chapter of your inspirational book, then you have to ask yourself if your're writing fiction.
Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another, "I want to know why!
If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gift. It is one of the most powerful gifts God can give—the ability to influence.
In the end, what will you fight for-- what got there first, what got there last or what has been there all along?
Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. It covers it up, with a creative version of pride and ego. Only restitution, forgiving yourself and others, compassion, repentance and living with dignity will ever erase the past.
To love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words they can understand.
Truth and facts are woven together. However, sometimes facts can blind you from seeing what is actually going on in someone’s life.
victimnoun \ˈvik-təm\ 1. The moment you tell everyone you have a mental disorder, in order to excuse your behavior.
The only way to move from your reality to God’s reality is through people who love you.
Gratitude was never meant to be an excuse for giving up on the obstacles God has put before you. Some of the most magical things he can bring us require faith and a lot of planning.
God is perceived by the heart, not by your reason. But what is reason? Your heart simplifying God’s guidance to fit your own needs.
Regardless of your faith, you can never escape uncertainty.
Many of the most powerful things in life are not tangible. All it takes is for you to close your eyes to see.
Sometimes, the scariest thing you will ever have to do is trust God to fight the battles you can no longer fight.
Music is the beat of a drum that keeps time with our emotions.
Don’t ever stray from yourself, in order to be close to someone that doesn’t have the courtesy to remind you of your worth, or the integrity of a gentleman to walk you home.
When a man plays with your heart it is for one of two reasons: He knows he can or he is undecided.
A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out.
The more I know about God, I am convinced He likes to read books and authors are His librarians. Every soul is a story waiting to be read.
You can’t selectively numb your anger, any more than you can turn off all lights in a room, and still expect to see the light.
In a narcissist's world you are not their one and only. You are an extension of that person and last place in their mind, while they secure back up narcissistic supply.
The only people that can't handle the truth are those that suffer so much anxiety that they will live in denial, in order to prevent their illusion from being destroyed and feeling more anxiety.
No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.
Always give your resume of good deeds when you run into someone that you wronged many years ago. They simply need to know today's version of you, before they judge you on yesterday's news.
The best kind of happiness is a habit you're passionate about.
You may marry Miss Grey for her fifteen pounds but you will always be my Willoughby. My nightmare. My sorrow. My past. My mistake. My regret. My love.
Your most important “want” should be the one you can control!
I would fight every angel between us until God said, "Yes.
Delusions are hardly an escape from reality. It’s a way of understanding insane people living in a backwards world.
When someone you love makes compassion, kindness, forgiveness, respect and God an option, you can be sure they have made you an option, as well.
Love is proved the moment you let go of someone because they need you to.
Sensitive people usually love deeply and hate deeply. They don't know any other way to live than by extremes because thier emotional theromastat is broken.
There is no perfection, only beautiful versions of brokenness.
God created philosophy for all the intellects that got bored of hearing the same bible stories every Sunday.
The mind knows the truth when your heart denies what it feels. When you don't feel safe to let people in it is because you're not ready to deal with the pain of honesty.
Your actions will always be what the world sees, but people who choose to see through God's eyes will always have the compassion to understand why.
Silence is a lie that screams at the light.
One of the most important things you can do on this earth is to let people know they are not alone.
An open Facebook page is simply a psychiatric dry erase board that screams, “Look at me. I am insecure. I need your reaction to what I am doing, but you’re not cool enough to be my friend. Therefore, I will just pray you see this because the approval of God is not all I need.
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Motivation is a byproduct of action, not the catalyst for it.
Control your thoughts or your thoughts will control you.
Today is a new day. Stop living in the past.
Focus on the step in front of you, not the whole staircase.
You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want great, then be great.
Your goals should scare you a little and excite you a lot.